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COUGAR ETIQUETTE

COUGAR ETIQUETTE 101: WHAT NOT TO DO WHEN DATING A YOUNGER MAN

July 31, 2013 ‐ By Julia Austin
Cougars are all the rage for men in their twenties through forties (although the latter are kidding themselves—they’re no young cubs). But just what is it about women in the 40 plus group that is such a turn on? You’ll thrive in the game of dating younger men if you can pin that down, and if you can avoid the bad behavior of your fellow 40-plus felines.
DON’T TRY TO DRESS LIKE YOU’RE TWENTY

Trying to dress like you’re half your age makes you look twice your age. You probably don’t have the abs you used to back in the day, so get acquainted with flowy tops. The good news is your girls probably grew with age and maybe a little weight gain elsewhere. Show ‘em off!

DON’T TRY TO KEEP UP WITH POP CULTURE

Play the music you like when he comes over, suggest movies from your youth on movie night, and for goodness sake do not keep up with the Kardashians. One of your cub’s favorite things about you is you’ve got “vintage” style. He wants to know what’s interesting and popular in your age group.

DON’T TRY TO PARTY TOO HARD

Men look for class in cougars. Don’t try to keep up with a young buck by suddenly wanting to go out all throughout the week and drink hard after work. Your body won’t bounce back the same; and if he wanted a party girl, he’d be with one, instead of you.

DON’T MOMMY HIM

Don’t correct his grammar, or fact-check him when he’s engaged in conversation, or wipe his mouth. The last thing he’ll want to do is have sex with someone who reminds him of his mother.

DON’T PAY FOR EVERYTHING

Let him feel like a man and treat you, too. The greatest thing about dating someone younger is that he has so many places to show you that you’d never know about otherwise, and visa versa. So, try this: when you suggest a place, you pay. And when he suggests one, he pays.

DON’T BE TOO BOSSY IN BED

A cub will like that you know what you’re doing. He won’t like if you imply he doesn’t know what he’s doing. If there are certain things you need to happen in bed, present them in a way so it’s fun for both of you, and not just all in service of your big O.

DON’T TALK TOO MUCH ABOUT YOUR ACCOMPLISHMENTS

You’ve had a longer life and inevitably accomplished more than your cub. It’s natural to reference your own history, experiences, victories etc. in conversation, but you have to watch it around a cub. He’s insecure to begin with: don’t provoke that.

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BUT DON’T DOWNPLAY YOUR ACCOMPLISHMENTS

Don’t completely stay quiet about what you’ve done! Part of what attracts a young guy to an older woman is all her knowledge and experience about careers, travel, relationships and life in general.When he asks you about your history, don’t be afraid to share.

DON’T GET CATTY AROUND YOUNGER WOMEN

Like a crop top or too much makeup, catty behavior instantly ages you. So long as you see your age as an advantage, so will your cub. But he can smell it the second you feel insecure about your age, and being catty to younger women is the first symptom.

DON’T KNOCK THE YOUNG SPOTS

Your cub is going to take you to places that are too loud, too crowded, too simple, too cheap, too dirty—you name it. But there’s a reason he likes those places. Be open to what that reason may be.

ACCEPT YOUR CURVES

Too many cougars hit the gym obsessively, whittling their bodies down to nothing but bone. That doesnot look good on an older woman. Curves come in beautifully on the 40-plus group. And to a cub, that type of body isn’t a turn off—it’s different and exciting.

DON’T JUDGE HIM

He won’t know as much about money management or interior design or even table manners as you do. His apartment might be messy and his resume might be all botched up. Just remember: so was yours when you were his age.

DON’T HIDE YOUR KIDS!

If you lie about having children or send them away to visit their aunt anytime your cub comes over, everybody will feel guilty. Your guy will feel guilty that your kids have to scram when he’s around, and you’ll feel guilty about hiding your pride and joy!

DON’T DUMP ON MEN YOUR AGE

A younger man wants to feel that you’re approaching the concept of dating younger men from a positive place. He wants to feel that you see what is special about him, and not just how he is the opposite of everybody else you’ve dated. Refrain from complaining about men your age.

http://madamenoire.com/288746/cougar-etiquette-101-what-not-to-do-when-dating-a-younger-man/15/

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How the word “BOOB” came about …..

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“HOW TO UNDERSTAND WOMEN”

“HOW TO  UNDERSTAND WOMEN”

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Lady Gaga’s nude pose for Fame perfume

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Lady Gaga’s nude pose for Fame perfume

The advertisement clearly depicts the capability to attract young men by just applying FAME perfume by Lady Gaga. The ad reads “LADY GAGA FAME – The first ever black eau de perfum.

The picture for the advertisement was shot by photographer Steven Klein. Lady Gaga had declared earlier that blood and semen is in the perfume but it doesn’t smell like it. :) (What more can you expect from the lady?)

There are two versions of FAME available – 30 dollars for affordable. Over 70 for Le Masterpiece – the singer tweeted. We are waiting for more version of FAME Lady Gaga.

FOR MEN ONLY-19 Secrets Women Wish to Know

FOR MEN ONLY-19 Secrets Women Wish to Know

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10 Reasons Why Women Make Better Leaders Than Men

10 Reasons Why Women Make Better Leaders Than Men

Daughters. Sisters. Wives. Mothers. Grandmothers. When you think of the roles women play in their lives, are these the only ones that come to your mind? Well, you need to think again because we are here to tell you that women are good leaders too. We’ll also provide you with sufficient reasons to support this fact.

1. They are driven by meaning

Women have an ability to do what they feel is right and what is meaningful. They will do only those things and make such decisions that are sensible as well as profitable. In fact, they also tend to create meaning for their employees.

2. They understand their subordinates

The best quality of a good leader is that he/she should be able to understand their subordinates and take their viewpoints into account. If they find someone’s opinion worthy, they should implement it. Women are able to do this. This motivates people to work better and put more effort in their work.

3. They want people to grow under them

In any profession, people want to grow and further their development in their field. If that won’t be possible, they will hardly find any motivation to work efficiently. As leaders, women want people to excel individually too. Along with the company’s growth, they also look towards their employees’ growth.

4. They are honest

Research suggests that people find women more honest than men when it comes to leadership. Women prefer to be honest and come out clear with the truth, however hard it may be. People want to work with an honest and ethical leader who knows the difference between right and wrong.

5. They are creative

Women are creative in whatever they do. If there’s a problem, they will try to view it from as many different angles as possible. They won’t be stuck at one thing, but will go ahead and think of out-of-the-box ideas.

http://www.magforwomen.com/10-reasons-why-women-make-better-leaders-than-men/